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BOOK REVIEW by Dan Hays  in Statesman Journal
--appeared on June 15, 2003--

Help for teens

Some books are just plain useful. And welcome.

If you have pre-teens or teenagers in your house or in your life, take a look at “May I Kiss You?: A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect & Sexual Assault Awareness,” by Michael J. Domitrz.

This is a fresh, practical and strong-willed book about mutual respect and understanding. It tells young people how to express their affections in respectful and clear ways. It teaches them how to avoid the assumptions that lead to conflict and problems and it explains what sexual assault is.

"A good common sense approach to creating respectful relationships and avoiding sexual assault, understanding its trauma, and helping a survivor. This book will be valuable for any young person who is thinking about what kind of relationship they want and how to insure that they are healthy."
- Alan Berkowitz, Independent Consultant for Sexual Assault Issues

"Domitrz’s work is insightful, identifying the problems that can arise when men and women rely solely on body language, assumptions and interpretation to guide their actions."
- Youth Today (September Issue)

"I LOVED the book, May I Kiss You?  In fact, we teach a Healthy Relationship class in our local middle and high schools, and we have now added a whole presentation on consent.  We had wanted to add that component which is why I found out about your book online.  It was incredibly clear and helpful, taking my own understanding on quite a journey.  Thank-you!!"
- Meg Kuhner, Youth Coordinator, Battered Women's Services & Shelter

"Domitrz covers a sensitive topic in a unique manner. . . . He makes you think about the very basic 'kiss' and how even that act demands permission.".
- Catherine Lovecchio, Health & Wellness Director, Villanova University
 

"Of all the elements of consent, 'asking for permission' is the most fundamental.  This book provides young adults with both an explanation and practical advice.".
- Scott Hampton, Director. Ending the Violence    
 

"May I Kiss You? is not only a must read for students but for every adult as well. The realities of dating and intimacy are something that everyone needs to be aware of. It is nice to have something that directs this issue at young men as well as young women. Many books direct this issue primarily at women because they are statistically at greater risk but the realization is that both genders are affected. Young men need to have this awareness too and to have a clearer concept of what dating should be. I like this book because it outlines many of the misconceptions that people have in dating practices. There are so many confusing aspects in dating relationships that people don't even recognize that can lead to sexual misconduct. This book helps illustrate some of those aspects. May I Kiss You? can benefit all of us. As an educator in the community on sexual assault issues, I have found it to be a useful resource for myself both personally and professionally.
- Susan Kouns, Rape Victim Services, Pathways Inc.  

"I'm not aware of a book like this.  May I Kiss You? gives a healthy, straight-forward method for ensuring respectful dating behavior.  It is a must read for parents and teens!  Mike puts into words what we’ve known but haven’t explained very well.”
- Patti Broomell, Counselor, Hamilton High School

"Given the changing nature of dating relationships over the past several decades, Mike's book provides a much-needed message for today's society.  Everyone who reads this book, from parents to students to administrators and others, will benefit from this refreshing look at the age old topic of relationships.  I highly recommend this book, and I am eagerly awaiting the arrival of Mike's next book!!"
- David Dial, Residential Life, Louisiana State University

"Domitrz simplifies the confusion of the dating process by urging readers to openly communicate their wants and needs. He empowers both males and females to transcend stereotypical gender roles and embrace a relationship that is free from sexual pressure and misunderstandings.".
- Theresa Asmus, Counselor, Rape Crisis Service of Planned Parenthood of the Rochester/Syracuse Region, New York 

“The book is must read for students in high school and college.  It is a book that will get you thinking about your current dating practices.  If you think you would never sexually assault someone, think again, you may already have!!”
- Sharon Hansen, Counselor, Berlin Middle School

"The book speaks to teens while informing parents and teachers. Domitrz speaks to both genders rather than focusing just on what girls need to do to not be victimized."
- Jennifer Hegge, Educational Resources Coordinator, Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault

“The book is unique because it addresses an important issue in an honest, down to earth fashion.  The tone is one of concern and reading the book feels like a conversation with Mike.  This easy to read book presents a wealth of information to teens and adults alike.  Its light approach to a serious subject is very comprehensive and much needed in the world of dating and exploring relationships.”
- Suzanne Trummer, ATODA Coordinator, Watertown School District

The book focuses all of us to take a look at ourselves, our actions, and the ability that we all have to promote change!”
- Laura Pennimpede, Rape Crisis Community Educator, Victim Assistance Services

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